My intelligence is a big button to me. Don’t push it, or without thinking twice, I’ll slap you with my IQ penis. I throw out the number like it’s nothing, though inside, I’m like, “It could be higher. I wish it were higher…” I use big words and logical arguments to coerce you into believing my IQ penis is much bigger than yours. I don’t play when it comes to my IQ.
I don’t know how the thought happened upon me (they come and go as they please and making the connections would keep me lost) but the thought, “That’s all I have” came to me. That’s all I have that makes me impressive, that can take me to the next level. The thought echoes in my head, “That’s all I have.” I have a husband who loves me and deals with the insanity. I have five beautiful, brilliant, well-behaved children. I have a best friend that has known me since I was eight and still wants something to do with me. I have a mother that goes over and beyond her grandmother and motherly duties to help me when I need it. I have a kind, compassionate heart. I have a bright and caring smile. I hope it’s contagious, too. I’m humorous… at least people tend to laugh when I talk. I’m taking it as a good thing because it’s usually what’s intended. I have a lot of good qualities, why else would these people who are close to me still be around (a question I wonder almost daily)? So why then is intelligence all that I have?
I also have baggage and scars. I have dark parts of me that make me ugly. We all do, right? So why is my brain, the one thing I’m holding up as I get buried beneath the mountain of baggage? Why is it important, above all else, that I’m smarter than you?
Somewhere in my brain, I believe that intelligence means you have to listen. I’m smarter than you, so you have to take my ideas seriously. You have to take me seriously. You have to know I’m not that long bearded, crazy man that spurts nonsense and every now and then reveals something deep (maybe I am). I’m brilliant and that give me the credentials I need. On the other side of that, it means that I don’t have to listen to what you are saying. I’m smarter than you, so when you say I’m unlovable, it can’t be true. When you point out my weaknesses, it doesn’t hurt as much because I’m so much smarter than you.
So when you attack my IQ, I have to defend it with my life. I have to throw out the number like it’s nothing, even though I’m pretty proud of it. I use big words and logical arguments so that you can’t take the only thing I have left that gives me validity. That makes me worthy of being listened to (of being loved, respected, admired?).
I don’t know if that’s why men measure penises. I don’t know if it’s to prove they are worthier than their foe. Because they think that’s all they have to win the battle. To give themselves better credentials as a mate. I do know that it seemed silly to me, as I’m sure my need to be smarter probably seemed to those who have had to deal with it.
What’s your penis envy? What makes you whip it out and show it off when someone attacks it? Why?